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Adulthood
Teens
Perimenopause
Anxiety Therapy Whitby
Perimenopause Therapy Whitby
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Contact
Speaking
Resources
Blog
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Anxiety Therapy Whitby
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Why the Hype? Mindfulness and Anxiety
Mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety Kira Hensley 2022-11-30 Mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety Kira Hensley 2022-11-30

Why the Hype? Mindfulness and Anxiety

Mindfulness changed my life. What is it and why do I recommend it for overthinkers?

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Thoughts are Not Facts: Why Thinking Doesn’t Make it So
Managing Thoughts, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Kira Hensley 2022-05-31 Managing Thoughts, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Kira Hensley 2022-05-31

Thoughts are Not Facts: Why Thinking Doesn’t Make it So

Okay, so we’ve been given a brain akin to a nasty social media algorithm. What do we do about it?

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Letting go of thoughts…sure, no problem
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2022-02-28 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2022-02-28

Letting go of thoughts…sure, no problem

What does it mean to “let go” of thoughts? This phrase comes up all the time in therapy. Picture yourself 5 minutes into a mindfulness meditation, and the whispery-voiced therapist says, “Notice the thought, and let it go.”

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How to Comfort a Beast
Self-Care, Managing Emotions, Self-Compassion Kira Hensley 2021-10-30 Self-Care, Managing Emotions, Self-Compassion Kira Hensley 2021-10-30

How to Comfort a Beast

We want to avoid emotional pain. It generally feels awful. The physical sensations are sometimes unbearable. Suffering sucks. Ugh. Of course we want to get rid of these feelings!!

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The Reason Your Anxious Thoughts Won’t Stop - No Matter How Hard You Try
Mindfulness, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-08-31 Mindfulness, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-08-31

The Reason Your Anxious Thoughts Won’t Stop - No Matter How Hard You Try

Discover two processes (noticing the thought and categorization) that help create psychological distance from the thought, so we can begin to view thoughts as simply - thoughts.

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Why your mind criticizes you -    and what to do about it
Perfectionism, Anxiety, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-02-26 Perfectionism, Anxiety, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-02-26

Why your mind criticizes you - and what to do about it

Why does this inner critic exist? What is it doing in your head besides torturing you? We can imagine the inner critic as an over-tuned, too effective part of the threat defense system.

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First panic attack in your 40s? Thanks hormones.

Estrogen and progesterone both regulate your stress response system. When they decline in perimenopause, the threshold for a full alarm response drops. No prior anxiety history required.

And hot flas Seeing straight through the bullshit.
A nervous system that picks up everything.
A kind of invisibility you never asked for.
And, occasionally, the strength to bend steel in the middle of a peri rage.

Not exactly what we expected.

But there is some You've been managing. Coping. Keeping it together.

And then perimenopause arrived, and suddenly the strategies that worked for years just...don't.

The focus is gone. The memory is unreliable. The emotional regulation that used to feel automatic now