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Why the Hype? Mindfulness and Anxiety
Mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety Kira Hensley 2022-11-30 Mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety Kira Hensley 2022-11-30

Why the Hype? Mindfulness and Anxiety

Mindfulness changed my life. What is it and why do I recommend it for overthinkers?

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Thinking Doesn’t Make it so
Managing Thoughts, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Kira Hensley 2022-05-31 Managing Thoughts, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Kira Hensley 2022-05-31

Thinking Doesn’t Make it so

Okay, so we’ve been given a brain akin to a nasty social media algorithm. What do we do about it?

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Letting go of thoughts…sure, no problem
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2022-02-28 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Anxiety, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2022-02-28

Letting go of thoughts…sure, no problem

What does it mean to “let go” of thoughts? This phrase comes up all the time in therapy. Picture yourself 5 minutes into a mindfulness meditation, and the whispery-voiced therapist says, “Notice the thought, and let it go.”

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How to Comfort a Beast
Self-Care, Managing Emotions, Self-Compassion Kira Hensley 2021-10-30 Self-Care, Managing Emotions, Self-Compassion Kira Hensley 2021-10-30

How to Comfort a Beast

We want to avoid emotional pain. It generally feels awful. The physical sensations are sometimes unbearable. Suffering sucks. Ugh. Of course we want to get rid of these feelings!!

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You’ve been “not thinking” wrong this whole time!
Mindfulness, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-08-31 Mindfulness, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-08-31

You’ve been “not thinking” wrong this whole time!

Discover two processes (noticing the thought and categorization) that help create psychological distance from the thought, so we can begin to view thoughts as simply - thoughts.

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Why your mind criticizes you and what to do about
Perfectionism, Anxiety, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-02-26 Perfectionism, Anxiety, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Managing Thoughts Kira Hensley 2021-02-26

Why your mind criticizes you and what to do about

Why does this inner critic exist? What is it doing in your head besides torturing you? We can imagine the inner critic as an over-tuned, too effective part of the threat defense system.

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The Worthy-at-Rest midlife hero - a woman who is here to remind you: rest isn't something you earn. In therapy, we untangle worth from output — so depletion doesn’t automatically become self-criticism.

#worthbeyondproductivity #restwitho Ever feel like you’re not sad… you’re just flat?

In perimenopause, emotional flatness can come from depletion (sleep disruption + nervous system strain + relentless load)… or it can be depression… or both.

Therapy h If perimenopause has you feeling flat, please know: this isn’t laziness or “you being dramatic.”
Sometimes it’s depletion. Sometimes it’s depression. Often… it’s a mix.

In therapy, we map the pattern, figur